Life didn't go the way it was supposed to....

but you don't need to live in the past.

You cringe when you have to check the box “divorced” every time you fill out a form.
You took your vows seriously, got married for life. You didn’t get married thinking … “we’ll just give this a try and see how it goes.”

Is this all there is?

Divorced doesn’t have to mean being all alone, doing it all alone, and shaming yourself … you are more than your divorce.

Are you becoming more and more isolated because none of your friends really get it?

You wonder why they don’t they just reach out sometimes? You’ve never been good at saying “no” … and asking for help feels needy. But not getting help means staying stuck, isolated anxious and depressed.

I have the solution to your stuck, and the “how to” in moving forward.

WELCOME. I'M SUZANNE.

WELCOME. I'M SUZANNE.

I am the founder of Divorce Doesn’t Define.

I’ve been a licensed professional counselor for over 20 years, and through my work and coaching I’ve helped hundreds of divorced moms get unstuck and become empowered to move forward in hope.

As a divorced mom I’ve lived the daily grind of overwhelmed, exhausted, worried about my future, and if I could make life happen for everybody. I am passionate about helping hundreds more divorced moms heal, know that they matter and that they’re enough. I once learned how to front and back pack my 2 year old twins while lowering my 4 year old son through a window to his awaiting pre-school teacher. I know how to creatively push through, when life feels like too much.

I can help you stop questioning and shaming yourself … help you say “no” and mean it … help you ask for the help you need and get it.